Whiskey & Ribbons by Leesa Cross-Smith

Content Warnings: death of a spouse.

Leesa Cross-Smith’s first novel, Whiskey & Ribbons, released this month by Hub City Press, was a priority on my to-read list. It’s based on a short story from her collection entitled Every Kiss a War, which I loved. In fact, the it is one story I remember in detail. It is also called “Whiskey & Ribbons,” and you can read it at Carve Magazine.

The novel is narrated by three people: Evangeline, Eamon, and Dalton. Each chapter cycles through these three in order, so if Evangeline leaves a cliffhanger, you have to read Eamon’s and then Dalton’s story before you get back to her. In the beginning, readers learn that Eamon was a police office killed in the line of duty. He and Evangeline had been married a couple of years, but the real tragedy is Evangeline is 9 months pregnant when he’s killed. The baby is born 16 days after his father’s death. Eamon’s brother, Dalton, moves in to help care for his sister-in-law and new nephew.

Evangeline narrates the present, and Dalton and Eamon take us to the past: when Eamon and Evangeline first met, how Dalton and Eamon became brothers after Dalton’s mom committed suicide and he didn’t know his father, through Dalton’s tepid relationships with his on-again/off-again girlfriend, and the news that Evangeline is pregnant.

The relationships of the three characters are beautifully complicated. In Eamon’s sections, we learn he’s an endearing, stand-up guy. But in the present, Eamon is dead; will Evangeline and Dalton fall in love now that they’re living together and co-parenting? Should they? They loved each other before as in-laws, so are they already loving/in love? Or should Dalton pursue a relationship he’s invested in with his co-worker, because by living with Evangeline, he’s putting his life on hold due to a promise he made his brother? There’s no doubt Evangeline grieves for her deceased husband. This scene is from shortly after his death, but before the baby is born:

Backyard-wandering, full-moon pregnant in my turquoise maternity dress and tobacco-colored cowboy boots, I’d lose my way. Dalton would find me. He was always finding me. He’d try to lure me inside with lemon water, with sticky, stinky cheeses or a small green bowl of almonds, the darkest chocolate chips. He would shake the bowl, like I was a kitten waiting to hear the rattle of food.

In this scene, the grief is for Eamon, but the focus is on Dalton’s care for her. Leesa Cross-Smith beautifully makes clear the love there, even when the characters don’t see it. Which can be one of the more frustrating parts of the novel. Evangeline — in the present — asks Dalton who he last had sex with, if he has a crush on his co-worker, if he wants to move out of her home. Her emotions wrecked, she could sound like a dependent high school girl with low self-esteem. But she is dependent. And she is broken by her grief. I plowed through her rude questions and comments and accepted that she doesn’t have to be likable.

Whiskey & Ribbons is unique. The cast is made up of African Americans, but this isn’t a novel about race (which Cross-Smith points out on Twitter, wondering why people feel it had to be). More surprising to me were the healthy male relationships. Dalton and Eamon express emotion, yet do guy stuff; they talk about women’s appearances, but are respectful overall. The brothers aren’t competitive, either. Recognizing their differences, they support each other. Most surprising is Evangeline’s admission that she was a virgin until marriage. I know it’s not common, but it’s also a chunk of the population that’s ignored/dismissed in fiction.

Cross-Smith writes beautifully throughout, creating words that fit together like a language collage that makes perfect sense. When Evangeline and Dalton kiss on page 3, Evangeline explains:

It was a kiss of ownership. It was a hot, dripping wax seal. The kiss was a lock and key. The kiss was a creaky gate in the wind.

In one of his chapters, Eamon finds out a secret that he wasn’t meant to know. He describes his feelings about knowing what he does:

And now I was burdened with a secret that was never mine. A secret on loan. A ghost, haunting the wrong house.

A lovely, dreamy, challenging yet uplifting novel about family and love, Whisky & Ribbons is not to be missed.

Thank you to Hub City Press for sending me an ARC of Whiskey & Ribbons in exchange for an honest review.


  1. I like it when stories explore characters – individuals – and their interactions, rather than having them ‘represent’ a particular group. And it sounds as though this happens here. And the premise is interesting, too.


  2. Oh this does sound lovely-and you’re completely right that ‘virgins until marriage’ are ignored in literature. And I’m so glad we have a book that stars black people, and is not about race! Yeesh, it only took us until 2018 to do this…


  3. I read the short story then read your review. The story really grabbed me, I’ve been in that guy looking after woman situation which feels sexual and not sexual at the same time. What I’m not sure about is Cross-Smith saying it’s not about race. What we read is what we read, the story exists somewhere beyond the author’s intention.


    • Isn’t it just captivating?

      I think what she means is the story isn’t about what people would call the black experience. It’s not about police brutality, like several books lately, and it’s not about stereotypes. It’s people who are black living their lives, but the book doesn’t make a point about what it means to live in a black body.


  4. This sounds like a beautiful novel that addresses very compelling and challenging issues. I can’t read about grief right now, but I will add this book to my list as a possibility for the future.


    • The majority of it is sweet and hopeful, but you know what’s coming, and Evangeline’s chapters are full of love AND grief. I certainly wouldn’t read this book if I were already sad. Or maybe it would help? I’m not sure.


  5. Sounds like a beautiful read! Losing a spouse is one of my prime nightmare scenarios, especially with young children, but somehow I still feel like I want to read this book now!


  6. I love many things about this… 1) how much you loved this book. For some reason I feel like you don’t usually love the books you review. Am I imagining this? 2) That this book is based on one of her short stories – awesome! I often read short stories and wish there was more! And 3) that the cast is African American but it’s not about race. How refreshing.
    I also think this scenario would be hard to write about and to get ‘right’. Adding it to my list!


    • I think the last 3 books I wasn’t very inspired. I liked Janet Mock’s book, but didn’t relate to it because I’m not trans and haven’t faced the deep struggles she has. The book before that was Fat Assassins–woohoo!

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    • I did enjoy it. It’s very romantic and sad and full of big emotion! I found this book through the author. I think I contacted her on Goodreads? I really dig her personality. It should be available as an ebook.


  7. Healthy male relationships?! What madness. Recently, my Kids Lit Book Club read Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe. One person’s biggest complaint was that the teenaged boys had too many feelings and their relationship didn’t feel realistic. I was shocked. I realize now that this is because the boys had a fairly healthy relationship (it wasn’t perfect, don’t get me wrong) both together and with their parents. Why is it so difficult to find healthy male friendships?

    How do you feel that Cross-Smith’s work changed as this is her first novel? Do you think her long, short, or short-short form shines the best?


    • Back when I was on Facebook, I could see that people I was friends with were raising boys to care for their emotions in a healthy and responsible way. It made me hopeful.

      I’m probably the biggest fan of Cross-Smith’s short stories. They’re not flash fiction, but they’re not bulky, either — nothing like 15-20 pages. Whiskey and Ribbons was a short story in Every Kiss a War and then developed into this novel. Because the story was a bit of a teaser that made me feel so many feels, I wanted a novel. When I got to the novel, it felt….long?

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